Conflict Self-Assessment

During conflict, I prefer to...

1. Create new possibilities to address all important concerns
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2. Persuade others to see it and/or do it my way
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3. Work out some sort of give-and-take agreement
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4. Let other people have their way
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5. Wait and let the conflict take care of itself
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6. Find ways that everyone can win
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7. Use whatever power I have to get what I want
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8. Find an agreeable compromise among people involved
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9. Give in so others get what they think is important
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10. Withdraw from the situation
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11. Assertively cooperate until everyone’s needs are met
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12. Compete until I either win or lose
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13. Engage in “give a little and get a little”
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14. Let others’ needs be met more than my own needs
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15. Avoid taking any action for as long as I can
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16. Partner with others to find the most inclusive solution
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17. Put my foot down assertively for a quick solution
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18. Negotiate for what all sides value and can live without
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19. Agree to what others want to create harmony
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20. Keep as far away from others involved as possible
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21. Stick with it to get everyone’s highest priorities
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22. Argue and debate over the best way
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23. Create some middle position everyone agrees to
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24. Put my priorities below those of other people
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25. Hope the issue does not come up
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26. Collaborate with others to achieve our goals together
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27. Compete with others for scarce resource
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28. Emphasize compromise and trade-offs
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29. Cool things down by letting others do it their way
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30. Change the subject to avoid the fighting
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